Politeness is more of an art than a science — but there are patterns. Here are six common mistakes that make hospitality workers sound less professional than they are, with better alternatives for each.
1Speaking too abruptly
We all want to get to the point, but a short, abrupt response when talking to a customer can come across as rude — even when it isn't meant that way.
Example — asking for a customer's name
"What's your name?"
"Could I get your name, please?"
2Making the customer feel wrong
Even if you think the customer is mistaken, there are polite and diplomatic ways to handle it. Directly contradicting a guest — however justified — almost always makes things worse.
Example — guest says the air conditioning isn't working
"That's impossible. It was working yesterday."
"I'll get someone to check that for you right away."
3Making the customer feel stupid
Not every customer is highly observant — but pointing that out, even subtly, is always impolite. The goal is to help, not to highlight what they missed.
Example — guest asks where the breakfast area is
"Yes, it says so right there on the sign."
"Yes, right through that door."
4Not giving enough information
A one-word answer to a genuine question can feel dismissive. Customers asking for a recommendation or opinion want more than a yes or no — they want to feel helped.
Example — guest asks if the wine is good
"Yes, it is."
"Yes, it's considered a very good wine. A lot of our customers order it."
5Being overly honest
Professional customer service requires a degree of tact. Sharing unnecessary details — especially anything that might worry or alarm a guest — is rarely helpful and often counterproductive.
Example — guest asks if the neighbourhood is safe
"Generally it is, but there have been a couple of robberies recently. You should be OK in the daytime, though."
"Generally it is safe, but exercise caution as you would anywhere and avoid walking alone at night."
6Inappropriate humour
Humour can be a great tool in customer service — but it needs to be read carefully. Jokes about personal matters, mistakes, or anything that could be taken as dismissive are best avoided entirely.
Example — guest points out their name was spelled wrong
"Oh, well, I was pretty close."
"Oh, I'm sorry — could you spell it for me again?"